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  • September 30, 2016 at 5:18 pm #1116
    Trà Lê
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    Hello. I need some advice. For almost 1 years I considered her as my best friend. However, I thought that for her I’m not her best friend. She seldom open up when she has a problem.One time, I saw her Instagram posts that she’s thankful to someone for being a good listener. I felt like I’m not there for her since she asked someone to listen on her problems and never told me anything about it. I’m just frustrated since I thought I’m her best friend.
    These days, I’m contemplating if she ever considered me as her best friend. I always felt when we are together that she’s not being on her true self. I just wanted her to be comfortable to me just like when she’s with her other friends.
    Now, I’m thinking that it’s better if I don’t expect anything from her. Should I consider her as one of my acquaintance and never expect her to disclose her problems? please help me!

    September 8, 2023 at 8:27 am #430662
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    Here are some tips on how to fix a friendship problem:

    Identify the problem. What is the underlying issue that is causing the conflict? Once you understand the problem, you can begin to work on a solution.
    Talk to your friend. Communication is key in https://luckybird.casino any relationship, but it is especially important in times of conflict. Talk to your friend about what is going on and how you are feeling. Be honest and open, and be willing to listen to your friend’s perspective.
    Be willing to compromise. No two people are exactly alike, so there will be times when you need to compromise in order to resolve a conflict. Be willing to meet your friend halfway, and be open to their suggestions.
    Forgive. Everyone makes mistakes, so be willing to forgive your friend if they have wronged you. Holding on to anger and resentment will only damage your friendship.
    Give your friendship time. It may take some time to repair a friendship that has been damaged. Be patient with each other and with yourself.

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